Stop Romanticizing Your Ex
Oh great. Here we go again. "An ex is an ex because they failed the role. Stop crying. They left. End of story." Right. Let me just grab my emotional reset button. Oh. It's broken. Shocking. 🙃 Yes, technically, the math is mathing. An ex is, by definition, someone who took an exit. They failed the audition for the leading role in your life. They ghosted, they fumbled, they looked at your open heart and decided, “Meh, I’ll pass.” Logically? You should be throwing confetti. Realistically? Your brain is currently replaying the time you looked at each other like you were the moon, right before you both treated each like an unpaid internship. Here is the sarcastic truth bomb we don't want to admit. Knowing they failed the role does not stop your nervous system from treating the breakup like a five alarm fire. Because heartbreak isn't logical. Heartbreak is a little demon with a bad editing suite. It takes the 5% of the relationship that was magical and loops it on 4K ...