WOMEN, CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDES BEFORE YOU CHANGE YOUR MAKEUP 💄

Let’s talk about something that’s going to sting a little. You know, the truth—that thing we all like to ignore when it’s inconvenient. Ladies, here’s the deal: you need to change your attitude before you change your makeup. I know, I know, nobody wants to hear this, but sit tight.

We all know that makeup is magical, right? It’s like a little potion that can make us feel like a million bucks. But let’s get real: does the makeup make you happy, or is it just a shiny coat of paint covering up something that needs fixing underneath? Spoiler alert: a fresh coat of lipstick won’t hide your bad attitude. Newsflash, ladies: Men aren’t looking for a walking Instagram filter. They want respect, honesty, and loyalty. Crazy, right? Not someone who can contour their face better than they can hold a conversation.

Here’s the kicker: If you can’t be happy by yourself, how on Earth do you expect someone else, especially a man, to make you happy? We’re talking about true happiness here—not just the temporary happiness you get from a new pair of shoes or a fresh batch of makeup. If you need someone to constantly validate your worth, you might want to start with the mirror before you start with a man.

And let’s just get this out there—BBLs and fillers aren’t going to keep a man around. Trust me, anyone can get a quick fling, but the ones looking for a real relationship won’t be sticking around for the fake versions of you. Makeup comes off. The BBL will eventually sag. So, what do you really have left to offer when the façade is gone?

Sure, wear makeup if you want to enhance your natural features. But if you're using it to look like a completely different person, what’s the point? If you’re not comfortable with the real you, how do you expect anyone else to be? Ladies, here’s a novel idea: learn to love yourself before demanding someone else to do it for you. Sounds crazy, I know.

Oh, and let’s talk about those filters. You know, the ones that make you look like a totally different person? The same ones you can’t seem to live without? Here’s a fun reality check: When a guy meets you in person and you don’t look like you stepped out of a Snapchat filter, don’t be surprised when they wonder if they’re meeting the same woman. Words are easy, but actions speak louder, right? If you’re all about the filters, but you can’t show the world the real you, then what’s the point?

Now, I get it. You’d rather point out a guy’s flaws than look in the mirror and examine your own. It’s easier, isn’t it? But hey, if you want respect, love, and a man who actually wants to be with you, the first step is realizing that the only attitude that needs adjusting is yours. Newsflash: nobody wants to date someone with a bad attitude. No one’s asking for perfection, but at least put in the effort to be a decent human being. You can’t fake maturity, and at the end of the day, if you aren’t growing as a person, you’ll be left with…well, nothing.

So, stop blaming men for your insecurities. Stop hiding behind makeup, filters, and excuses. Start with yourself. Work on your inner self, your attitude, and your confidence. If you can’t be happy with you, how can you expect anyone else to? The effort you put into enhancing your looks should be matched by the effort you put into enhancing your personality. Fix your attitude first, and maybe—just maybe—the rest will follow. 

Now, go ahead and grab your makeup bag. But before you do, maybe check your attitude first.