POSTING YOUR 🍑 AND WONDERING WHY NO ONE TAKES YOU SERIOUSLY

Oh, bless their hearts – the girls who screenshot their DMs and post them like they’re winning some kind of award. You know the ones – proudly gloating about how they totally shut down a guy who was interested. Let’s be real, though, that’s kind of a red flag for self-esteem issues. But hey, we all have our moments, right? Some just choose to put theirs on display. 

Look, it’s totally normal for guys to be, well, guys – and let’s face it, they’re not the best at reading social cues. But girls? You do you. Respond to who you want and keep it moving. If you’re feeling the need to post a screenshot, though, maybe flex your bank balance instead? That’s the kind of screenshot that really gets attention.

And don’t get me wrong – intimacy is a two-way street, and both men and women have needs. But expecting something financial in return for mutual pleasure? Eh, not the best look. Maybe focus on your financial independence instead – trust me, that’ll feel way better than showing off some random DMs.

As for the whole “posting your 🍑” thing – let’s be honest, it’s not as groundbreaking as you think. If the guy ignores you, it’s probably because he’s got standards (shocking, right?). And who’s actually responding? Well, probably the guys with no car, no house, and no plans other than to scroll through social media all day. So when they do respond, don't be mad – it’s kind of like fishing, but the “big fish” are way more selective. Just saying.

Honestly, we’re seeing more women figuring out that social media isn’t the best place to show off, but hey, we’ll get there. Women posting their 🍑 isn’t exactly revolutionary – it’s just a little... predictable. So maybe next time, try flexing something with a little more staying power – like a career, a hobby, or hey, even a good book.

But hey, do your thing. Just don’t expect the world to bow down because of a picture. 😉

Location: Windhoek, Namibia

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