THE HONEST IMPACT with Gideon Kapuka

😝Come Over Favors Most Women. The Rest Are Just Mad They Auditioned With Bad Intentions. I hope you know that this come over of a thing does not favor most women. No. For me, I think it has favored most women. Maybe the most women you are talking about are the ones that are not genuine. The ones that come with a calculator, a checklist, and a hidden agenda. Because once you are not genuine, it will hardly favor you. Many women are married today because they came over. Come over is not for everybody. Come over must not favor everybody. Because once you are not genuine, you go come over tire. Hey, come over is like the first step of a woman that wants to settle down. You must come over now. So it must not favor everybody. Do you copy? Copy that. First of all, what do you understand by come over? Define it in your own way. I don't know. You define it. Alright, get your pen and paper. My own definition of come over can be defined as the first step of a woman to prove her seriousness f...

The Church Stands Because Women Keep Showing Up. That Is the Business Model. You know what? You are onto something. And I am going to hold your beer while you say it, because the room is about to get real quiet. Let us be clear: the church is not standing because of divine intervention. It is standing because of women. If women collectively decided tomorrow that they were done with the three hour service, the offering basket would be collecting dust and the pastor would be updating his LinkedIn. Now, you said men do not need illusion to function. And honestly? That part is so sharp it could cut glass. A man wants money. He plots. He schemes. He moves. Whether it is a nine to five or a 419, he has a plan and a backup plan. A man wants a wife. He finds a woman, proposes, and suddenly he is a family man getting applause at the men's fellowship. He does not need to fast for forty days to find a wife. He needs a decent shirt and some audacity. But women? You said it yourself. They are t...

Welcome to the Audacity Olympics, where every ex is crazy, every situationship was almost a relationship, and every bad decision is somehow the universe’s fault. Grab a seat, preferably not the one in the back of a Honda. 😌 Free Trial Princess, Premium Delusion Some people get treated like royalty for one weekend and suddenly think they are owed a throne, a crown, and a partner who pays their bills. Ma’am, that was not a proposal. That was a free trial. You got the sample size, not the premium subscription. And when it expired, you acted shocked? The audacity is breathtaking. 💅🏾 The Rebrand Is Not a Rehab Then there is the classic rebrand: “I am done with men. I am into women now.” Listen, sexuality is not a rebound strategy. If you are genuinely into women, beautiful. Live your truth. But if you are just tired of men treating you like an option, that is not a sexual awakening. That is a therapy appointment you are avoiding. Women are not a rehab center for your bad taste in men. 🥱...

Eish, bra. There's a trend going around where men are handing out a "girlfriend allowance" like it's a salary review. A regular payout to a girlfriend just for showing up in the relationship. No bills shared. No load carried. No plan being built. Nothing. And somehow this is being sold to you as "provider energy." Sharp sharp, very romantic. Very c ash app is my love language. When love comes with a payslip Let's be honest, what's up with calling this a relationship? It's basically a bar tab with extra steps. Money goes one way. Attention comes back the other way. On schedule. Like a debit order. You're not dating. You're running payroll for one employee whose only key performance indicator is being available. And the scary part? Nobody signed anything. But everybody knows the terms. The month the transfers stop, the availability stops. The replies get shorter. The "I'm busy" starts showing up. And you sit there confused, as...

Let me be unapologetic for a second. There is a specific kind of date that will humble you. It will not humble you because the conversation was bad. It will not humble you because she was rude. It will humble you because you will spend three hours feeling like an unauthorised visitor in somebody else's very disciplined life. You asked her out. She said yes. You thought you won. You did not win. You were granted a slot. And now you have to survive it. You Are Not Dating Her, You Are Dating Her Calendar  📅 The first thing you will notice is that she does not really have free time. She has windows. "Tuesday could work but only after 7 and only for like an hour and a half because I have to be up at 4:30." Four thirty. In the morning. For what? For what, ma'am? What is happening at 4:30 that cannot happen at 6? Nothing. Nothing is happening. She just decided that suffering before sunrise counts as a personality. So you spend the entire date aware that there is a countdown...

There is an epidemic happening right now and everybody is too busy pointing fingers to notice they are standing in the middle of it. Men are lonely. Women are lonely. Old people are lonely. Young people are lonely. People in marriages are lonely. People in crowds are lonely. People with three thousand followers and four hundred unread messages are lonely. We built a world that connects everybody and touches nobody. And then we turn around and blame each other for it. The Great Gender Blame Game 🎭 Here is how the conversation usually goes. Somebody writes a post about lonely men. The comments fill up with women saying, "Well maybe if men opened up emotionally." Somebody writes a post about lonely women. The comments fill up with men saying, "Well maybe if women weren't so impossible." And everybody feels a little better. Because if it is their fault, then it is not our fault. If they are the problem, then we are the victims. And being a victim is more comfortabl...

Let me start with a statement that will make some people clutch their pearls so hard they leave fingerprints on them. Contraceptives are not medicine. Contraception is not healthcare. There. It is out. And I am not sorry. Before the pitchforks come out, let me explain exactly what I mean, because this is not a moral argument. This is a definitional one. This is about language, about categories, about the words we use and whether they actually mean what we think they mean. And the words "medicine" and "healthcare" have been stretched so far that they no longer resemble their original shapes. Let Us Define Our Terms 📚 A medicine is a substance used to treat, cure, or prevent a disease. That is the standard definition. It is a substance that addresses a pathological condition, an abnormality, a dysfunction. A drug, according to the World Health Organization, is "any substance that, when taken in the living organism, may modify one or more of its functions." ...